IofR

Effective October 26, 2026

Terms

IofR books short, public conversations. These terms are the agreement you make by using it.

Who can join

You must be eighteen or older and keep the standards your institute asks of its students. Join only once, under your real first name.

How meetings work

  • Meetings happen only in public places: inside the institute building during the day, or right after an event at the named spot where it was held.
  • The length is set in advance. When it ends, you part in separate directions. The man waits until the woman has gone.
  • No phone numbers and no plans for another meeting in person. Follow-up happens only through IofR, only when both people say yes.
  • You can say no to any meeting, cancel one, or block anyone, at any time, without giving a reason.

Conduct

Be kind. Don't harass, pressure, follow, or contact anyone outside what IofR arranges. Don't misrepresent yourself. Statements and notes you write must be respectful and must not be about a particular person or about sex or physical affection. IofR can remove a statement, a note, or a member at its discretion, and may report threats to the authorities.

Reports and blocks

You can report a concern from any meeting in your record, and block anyone you've been matched with. Blocked people are never matched with you again.

Your safety

IofR does not run background checks or verify identity. Meet only where IofR places you, tell someone you trust where you'll be, and leave if anything feels wrong. You're responsible for your own decisions and conduct.

No warranty

IofR is provided free and as is, without warranties of any kind. To the extent the law allows, its operator isn't liable for anything arising from your use of it or from any meeting.

Independent

IofR is not run by, sponsored by, or affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or its Seminaries and Institutes of Religion, or with any university.

Law

These terms are governed by the laws of Virginia. Questions: steele@knucode.com.

IofR is an independent project. It is not run by, sponsored by, or affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or its Seminaries and Institutes of Religion.

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